approx. 5" x 6" graphite in sketchbook
Another sketch done while watching the New Year's Day football game
Since I have been telling myself for some time that I am going to start sketching more, I have decided that I better become a bit schooled in sketching etiquette. It seems to me that dedicated, experienced sketchers sketch anywhere and everywhere, but being a more amateur sketcher, I sometimes worry that I might offend.
Case in point, this past weekend I decided to try sketching in church. It seemed like a good idea. I knew I'd be there for nearly an hour, and there was plenty of subject matter if you don't mind sketching the backs of peoples heads, so why not?
Apparently the answer to that questions is because your child will be appalled and act as if your bad behavior is going to result in you being struck by lightening any second. Since I didn't want to set a bad example, I put the pencil away. I think she might have been overreacting a bit though since I obviously lived to tell about it.
So my first questions about sketching etiquette is...
1. Is it inappropriate to sketch in church?
I asked hubby and his opinion is that it is okay when we are sitting but not when we are kneeling. I'm guessing he'd so no during the standing parts too, but he didn't specify at the time. Child #2's actions clearly stated that she thought sketching in church was sacrilege pure and simple. What do you think?
A follow up to question #1...
2. Are there other places where breaking out a sketchbook would be a bad idea?
Okay, so there are some obvious places like in a public bathroom. (I say public because I have seen sketches which were
drawn during a bath. Not that I'd ever be that brave. I'd give myself a matter of minutes before that book was wet.) And I'm not at all comfortable sketching in a doctor's waiting room. But I would sketch in other waiting rooms, like a dentist or hairdresser.
I know that a lot of people sketch while they are in pubs or coffee shops. My manners question for this location...
3. Is it impolite to sketch in a pub if you are dining with other people?
Here my concern is my ability to take part in conversations while I am sketching. I can listen while I draw (which is why I didn't think drawing during church was disrespectful), but being an active participant is another story.
If the answer is only sketch when you dine alone, the next question becomes...
4. How do these people manage to dine alone so frequently? Are they eating more than 3 squares a day? (Okay so that was two questions, I guess I'm not a purist.)
Taking this line of thinking in a slightly different direction...
5. If sketching in pubs and coffee shops is allowed, at what kind of eatery does this activity begin to be frowned upon? For example, if you went out to a very fine restaurant in your best fancy dress and were served a seven course meal by waiters wearing white gloves, I'm guessing you wouldn't whip out your sketchbook and ask the waiters to pose. So where is the break point? I've never seen a No Sketching sign posted in a restaurant.
You can see that I so need a Miss Manners of Sketching to guide me. Just until I learn the ropes and outgrow the possibility of embarrassing my children. Of course... that might take a lot of fun out of life... so maybe I'll just wing it instead!